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Do I have to get someone I just started dating a Valentine's Day gift (and if so, what)?
Whatever you do, don't ignore the holiday—that holds whether you're going on date number 3 or 300. While it might seem like a trite celebration to you, it's not to her, so plan on acknowledging it in some way. If you want to do something that's more of a token than an outright statement, consider flowers and chocolates—there's a good reason why they're a cliché: they always work. To make your sweets a little less expected, pass on the heart-shaped box from the drug store and go with something from an upscale chocolate shop or gourmet grocer (classic macaroons in fancy wrapping are my go-to). If you feel comfortable making more of a declaration, I'd go with jewelry—I don't know a single woman who feels she has too much of it, and it comes at all price points (and better yet, it's one size fits all, so you avoid that potentially messy gauntlet).

What's the best way to pull off a winter scarf?
I try not to overthink scarves: I think they look best when they're thrown on a bit haphazardly. I'd also say they only really work when they're worn to keep you warm and not as a fashion piece, so I tend to wear mine with coats and jackets and that's it. As for how, I simply wrap mine around my neck a couple of times and sort of tie it in a knot in the front, but you should wear yours however it comes naturally—keep it simple and you'll be fine.

Snow boots with a suit—yes or no?
Yes, absolutely. Trying to navigate messy winter streets in dress shoes is a surefire way to look ridiculous (which is what, I presume, you're tying to avoid). If you live in an area that gets snow or slush, boots are a grim reality of winter. Personally, I wear my Red Wing® work boots all winter long, no matter what else I'm wearing—if I happen to be in a suit, I'll bring a change of shoes for the office. If you really don't like this idea, you could opt for a pair of classic galoshes instead (I like the ones made by Tingley). They slip on right over your shoes and will protect the leather while giving you a bit more traction on slippery winter streets and sidewalks.

How often should I wash my selvedge jeans?
It's a matter of personal preference: each time you wash a pair of jeans, the color will fade slightly, and all denim (especially selvedge) will shrink to some degree—so it really depends on what sort of look you want your jeans to have. I like the saturated color of my selvedge jeans, so I try to wash them as little as possible and rely on spot cleaning for any real stains. If you want to wash yours with any frequency, you can minimize shrinking by using cold water and laying them flat to dry; if you're concerned about preserving the color, turn them inside out and use detergent sparingly. Want a more in-depth answer? Check out our handy denim care guide.

I can't figure out what to wear under sweaters—dress shirts seem too stuffy and tees too sloppy. Thoughts?
Try wearing a workwear-inspired shirt instead of a traditional button-down. Our vintage chambray and poplin utility shirts both look great worn under a V-neck sweater. Add a corduroy sportcoat for a look that's casual but still totally pulled together (without looking like you tried too hard).

Is there an acceptable alternative to the basic black suit?
You've probably heard some form of the expression "navy is the new black," but it actually happens to be true at the moment—especially in suiting. A navy suit can be as elegant and sophisticated as a black one and just as versatile too. Paired with a crisp white dress shirt, a dark tie and wing tips, it's refined enough to wear to a wedding, but worn with a chambray shirt and Jack Purcells®, it feels unbuttoned and modern. Right now I'm into our navy worsted wool suit—it's got these cool narrow lapels reminiscent of a suit from the '60s, and the color isn't as dark as traditional navy, so it seems fresh and new. Also, the fabric is made from this great wool and mohair blend, so it has a really distinctive finish that's sure to make you stand out (and not in a sore thumb kind of way).